Friday, December 23, 2011

Ru Turns 10

So as my older boys would say it was the first year of teen hood...0-teen. She's not so interested in Pollys or Barbies anymore. A new era filled with friends, hairstyles, and clothes. Her feet grew 2 1/2 sizes over the summer...where did my little girl go? The fall has been filled with competitive soccer and now basketball. She's a great kid...awesome big sis and loves hangin with her big bros too!!

Football Season Highlights

CJ finished his best season ever this year. The Riverhawks went undefeated and won league. CJ was first team all league for both defense and offense. He later was voted all area for defense which was quite an honor. It was a weird feeling the very last game to think...we will never get to watch him play football again in this setting. He is a senior and has applied to both Naval and West Point Acadamies. He's got a great shot with his GPA, leadership skills, sports and activities he's involved in...all I can say is senior year has this bittersweet flavor of excitement for future but knowing it is also an end to a season!

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Summer Catch Up II - Oh Canada

In August, Ru and I headed north to Canada to spend some time with family. Ess and Matt did not go, as it is a rustic family cottage with too many hazards for non swimming 5 year olds. Their time will come. We had a great time with Gramps and Grams and other dear family members. Below was Ru's first time driving a boat. Next Gramps and I revisited days of old of snorkeling in the cold northern waters...but this time we were smarter and wore shorty wet suits :O)


One of our highlight adventures was cliff jumping off granite rocks into the cold clear water. Ruthie suprised us all by leaping off the 30 foot cliff 3 times!! Atta girl Ru...way to go!!








Saturday, October 1, 2011

Summer Catch Up I

So, somehow three months have past since I last blogged??? What??? How did that happen? So in an effort to catch up I have uploaded all pics to my computer and will do a little Summer recap series. Here is part I.





In July, we did a family camping trip...it was a little sentimental for me as I realized with a senior this could be our last time the 7 of us could take a trip like that together. Our oldest has applied to two military academies and as of current has gotten his LOA (letter of assurance) from one of them. Very proud of him...but also realize we will be doing the last of lots of things this year as a family of seven!! As noted in the picture above...I had everyone choose a flat stone that we stacked in a little memorial as we threw rocks in a mighty glacial river (the brownish one) that was converging with a mountain river (the clear one). I spent some time reflecting here on this season of change...rivers converging into something new...Robert had just been layed off from his job of 27 years...thankful for all we have been givin' but on the horizon of something new?! At present, still seeking the Lord, job hunting, and waiting...excited and a little nervous for what lies ahead.



Ess and Matt made new personal bests this year in hiking. They made it almost 3 miles before having to be carried!! Way to go kids!!





In our area...summer means fresh cherries. A fun family event to go and pick our own...wish you coulda seen all the red cherry happy faces when we got back home :O)







Friday, July 15, 2011

Marking Four years with our "little star" Esther!!!

So, July 4th marked Esther's Forever Family Day...her 4th year home with us!! Hard to believe 4 years have passed with our sweet little princess! She is a strong character...quiet...but STRONG! I think that strength is what helped her to be a survivor. There have been many sleepless nights, medical issues, night terrors, passive aggressive battles, attachment issues, developmental delays...just to name a few. But here we are at four years and can't imagine what our family would be like without her! The Lord picked this precious "Star" to be part of our family. We are so grateful to Him for the healing progress that has transpired in her little heart as she overcomes trust issues and learning difficulties. She is a fighter and a beautiful, compassionate, full of nurturing for her babies, sly sense of humor, girly-girl!! We love you sweetie!!











Thursday, June 30, 2011

Matthias home for 1 year!!

We will have Matt dedicated at church this Sunday marking his one year home anniversary! We are calling it "Forever Family" day for both Esther and Matt as July 3rd and 4th mark their annivery of citizenship (day they stepped on US soil Esther 4 years ago and Matt 1 year ago) and the start of our lives together as a family. It is hard to believe a year has passed. Matt has grown physically, emotionally, cognatively, and brotherly:O) I recall our crazy summer last year when Matt was trying to figure out his new boundaries, learn English, taste new foods, and figure out his role in his new family. It was really a time of survival, chaos, and being flexible as we rolled with many aspects that were part of adjustment for all of us.


It is so fun to look at these pictures and see how this little boy has matured and changed. His glasses have changed his life dramatically as he is much more coordinated and loves to point out details in books he could previously not see. With how poor his vision was it is amazing how well he adapted and was successful at so many things. I believe that is just part of his "go for it" personality!
Matt also received tubes in his ears over the last year. The doctor described the stuff in his ears as "amber goo". Very technical, but said it was no wonder Matt was so loud...he could not hear very well. Again, it shows Matt's ability and aptitude to acquire language and communicate as well as he did. He is an overcomer for sure!! He loves to be the leader in anything that others will allow. He has quickly learned English and is making great progress on lots of difficult sounds for him each week in speech class. Some could call his budding leadership style "bossy", but I am sure the Lord has great plans for Matt's desires to be in charge.



Matt has learned how to be the littlest brother in a family with 5 kids. He loves wrestling with his big bros and fighting the "bad guys" as seen in the photo with his sister. We are trying to promote the idea of him attacking those dinosaurs and keeping them away from his sister princess instead of battling her. He loves to swing his pretend weapons with gusto and lots of boyish growls...we just need to make sure no one is near by :O)





There have been lots of medical visits for Matt this year and some surgeries too...not his favorite as you can see in the photo. But he really tries his best and always tells me how brave he is. His next event will be getting a specialized retainer called a palatal obturator which will give him a solid roof of his mouth for speech purposes until his cranial plate is large enough for his next major surgery between 7-10 years old. Matt really is quite brave and always shakes his doctors hands and can't wait to get his hands on any medical equipment they will let him touch.






Those of you who know Matt from New Day or here in the states...know he is busy and an explorer to the max! One of his funnest events this year was a fundraiser for the children's ward at the local hospital. It was called "The Big Rig" where kids got to get inside every large vehicle from garbage trucks to fire trucks, back hoes to police cars and push buttons, beep horns, and make things move with the help of the owners. Matt, who usually is being told to keep his hands from making poor choices, was free to try everything he could. He was sooooo happy!


I want to thank those of you who have visited Matt's progress over this past year and have continued to keep him in your prayers as he has grown and adjusted to life in our family of 7. Matthias - gift of God - is true to the name the Lord game him. We really cannot picture our lives without him. He adds spunk and personality to our family that some days just makes me laugh. He is known for his chatter style amidst any group of people with "hey, let me just tell you something..." and his same knock knock joke he likes to tell over and over...and then he comes up with phrases like "my mommy is the bestest and just loves me all day". How can you beat that? We love you Matt and are so happy to celebrate 1 year with you!!!






Thursday, May 19, 2011

Spring Adventures

Brother and sister bonding!! We work on lots of social issues and cues all the time with these two :O) Nice to see some luvin' and protective natures going on. Although Esther is two weeks older than Matt...Matt now likes to tell us "Esther older but I Bigger" as he weighs about 8 pounds more. An awesome event held last weekend at one of our local parks. A big fundraiser for our pediatric wing of local hospital. There were about 40 vehicles of all kinds with their drivers there for kids to hop in, toot horns, push buttons, etc. As you can see by the look of concentration on Matt's face and his seat belt fastened...it is all about business as he pretends to drive the Bobcat!